Friday, December 13, 2013
The Gifts of Mandela
One of the things I have been thinking about is the fact that he spent 27 years in prison. How did he do that? Could I survive such an ordeal? In a Dickensian work of fiction, such an incredible injustice would warp and twist a man.
I think that in Mandela's case, it did change him. But it changed him for the better. He once said: "I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether that comes from nature or nurture, I cannot say. Part of being optimistic is keeping one's head pointed toward the sun, one's feet moving forward. There were many dark moments when my faith in humanity was sorely tested, but I would not and could not give myself up to despair. That way lays defeat and death."
There is so much to learn from his life. Here are a few quotes from Nelson Mandela that show what he was made of.
On courage: "I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear."
On being formidable: "A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination."
On leading others: "It is better to lead from behind and to put others in front, especially when you celebrate victory when nice things occur. You take the front line when there is danger. Then people will appreciate your leadership."
On being free: "For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others."
On the impossible: "It always seems impossible until its done."
On transforming one's enemy: "If you want to make peace with your enemy, you have to work with your enemy. Then he becomes your partner."
On love and hate: “No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”
Mandela is a case study in perseverance. In faith. And in transformation, going from being demonized as a terrorist to a beloved leader. He gives us an example of the power of forgiveness and reconciliation
Like Holocaust survivor Elie Wiesel and others who endured the horrors of hatred, his life is a testament to our ability to survive even the harshest conditions. He shows us what it takes to pass the toughest of tests.
He has taught us about being a leader: "A leader is like a shepherd. He stays behind the flock, letting the most nimble go out ahead, whereupon the others follow, not realizing that all along they are being directed from behind."
Posted by Terrence Seamon on Friday December 13, 2013
Terrence H. Seamon is an organization development consultant who provides leadership and team development services to employers in New Jersey. His book Lead the Way explores the challenges of leadership. Additionally, Terry is a job search and career coach whose book To Your Success provides a motivational guide for anyone in transition. His third book, Change for the Better, provides leaders with a guide to initiating, and navigating through, organizational change. An alumnus of PSG, Terry co-founded and co-moderates the St. Matthias Employment Ministry in Somerset, NJ. He can be reached at email@example.com and via his website: http://about.me/terrenceseamon